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Are You Singing the Low Self-Esteem Blues?

Part 2 - Consequences and Tips

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Updated March 05, 2008

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Consequences of Low Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem reduces your chances of success in life. It can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increased likelihood for depression. No matter how badly you want to reach a goal, low self-esteem will hold you back every time. When you don't value yourself and lack self-esteem, it will work against you and undermine you. If you do not believe in yourself, who will? Worst of all, these negative consequences themselves reinforce the negative self-image and can take a person into a downward spiral of lower and lower self-esteem and increasingly non-productive or even actively self-destructive behavior.

How Can We Build Self-Confidence?
From the UT Learning Center (with some adaptation).

  1. Accept yourself.
  2. Respect your own needs.
  3. Focus on things that make you feel good.
  4. Set goals you can reach.
  5. Focus on positive thoughts.
  6. Make a point to learn new things.
  7. Solve problems.
  8. Focus on your skills, not your weaknesses.
  9. Don't blame others for your own mistakes.
  10. Develop a good opinion of yourself.
  11. Accept that nothing and no one is perfect.
A healthy self-esteem is very important. Confidence in yourself goes hand-in-hand with reaching your goals. Self-confidence is an attitude that allows us to have positive yet realistic views of ourselves and our situations. Self-confident people are willing to risk the disapproval of others because they generally trust their own abilities. They tend to accept themselves; they don't feel they have to conform in order to be accepted.

Beating low self-esteem is a wonderful thing, and it's much easier than you'd imagine. Learn how to develop your self-confidence by following the tips from this article. Notice the small differences as they happen. Persevere and don't expect everything at once.

Part 1: Causes and signs of low self-esteem

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